We still use disciplinary spankings, but we also do spankings just for the fun of using spankings as foreplay. I wonder how many couples are similar to us.
Two days ago, we decided on a leisurely afternoon to include sex, and Cindy went and took a long bath. After the bath, we discussed whether she should spank me or not, always worried about my heart being safe.
Soon, I was over her knees on the bed, so my whole body was supported, and Cindy used the metal studded leather heart paddle. She likes using this instrument, and it is extremely EFFECTIVE.
No warm-up, and no lowering of my panties ensued. No warm-up makes the first spanks very effective, and then the heat just continues to rise. I found my self squirming and owwing very quickly. This implement is somewhat whippy,as it bends at the end when moving away from my bottom after a spank, and whips forward on contact, Maybe about twenty or so spanks whacked my bottom,before Cindy paused.
Cindy finally stopped, and permitted me to get up. I thanked her for the spanking, and she remarked how I really seemed to react to the spanking. What she did not realize that while concentrating on my breathing, and listening for it, she was continuing to rapidly apply hard spanks to my bottom.
Whatever people refer to as subspace, I was close to it, if not in it.
The love making afterwards was fabulous, with various positions, oral and penetrative sex, and Cindy having a fabulous screaming orgasm
Spanking and sex... what a wonderful combination.