17.11.12

Explaining Your SPANKING DESIRES TO YOUR PARTNER

For all those people out there wishing they were in a spanking relationship, this is an article you should read....
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/11/fashion/modern-love-a-spanking-fetish-is-not-revealed-easily.html?_r=0
Hermione recently posted about it, but our blogs have some cross-over of readers, but many who do not read both blogs.Here is what Hermione had to say about the issue..
http://hermionesheart.blogspot.com/2012/11/revealing-your-love-of-spanking.html

I receive emails at times about how to get their partner to spank them. I don't really know how to answer!
Love, trust, a solid relationship, and a caring in the relationship all are necessary.

Maybe some readers will step up to the plate and tell how they came about discussing spanking, and becoming comfortable with spanking their partner.
 and after the spanking, both can admire the handiwork
Go read the article... it is worthwhile...
bottoms up
Red

6 comments:

  1. Hi Red:

    I guess I'm among the lucky ones, I met my Wife in a spanking chat room. As luck would have it, we were both bottoms, but we decided to work through that problem, and that made us both extremely happy.

    We've been together 9 years now, and we both get what we need and want. I guess that's why She was so open to allowing other Women to spank me.

    For those trying to find someone, I suggest they don't stop trying, there's always someone out there.

    Great Post!!

    James

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    1. James: you are indeed very lucky, and thanks for describing to everyone. This should have numerous people joining spanking chat groups. Which one did you use?
      bottoms up
      Red

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  2. It's interesting you mention this, because that's the subject of today's brunch over at Bonnie's blog.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Hermione: i got the idea from you, and have also seen Audrey Knight publish about the same article. As you are retired, this would be a great e-book that you could write..... and I think their is definitely a market for this...
      bottoms up
      Red

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