7.10.12

Erections: The reality of many F/M spanking relationships

We use spanking as discipline sometimes, but many times for sexual simulation and role play.
I like being able to be submissive, as this is definitely not my normal situation.


When we first started spankings, I would become erect immediately when informed  that I would be spanked.
 

Erections,, even when occurring for a discipline spanking, did not stop the spanking.



Now, many years later, this does not always occur, but usually still does...
When being spanked, the spankings are real, and the erection now fades away....
Cindy sometimes teases me about this before beginning the spanking, stating that it is a shame that your erection  is going to disappear.




 I assure her that it will rapidly return with a little affection.. and it always does...
so enjoy the fact that spanking your husband can lead to fabulous sex...

 and hope his erection remains throughout the spnaking

or can easily be revived
bottoms up
Red

43 comments:

Bryan said...

It's not suprising a lot of the pics are of David, that boy always had wood, before, during and after a spanking

Bryan

Michael M said...

Good images thanks

Suzanne said...

Nice post Red. The mention of a spanking is the easiest way to determine someone's preference, i.e. Dom or sub. I simply put my thighs together, pat them with my hand, use my pointing finger to beckon the potential sub and by the time they come close, their erection has begun. It's sooooo easy.

Suzanne

Njspank said...

Red,

I would be rock hard too if any one of those ladies had me in their panties and taking me on their knee for a long spanking, hot post
Thanks
ron

Anonymous said...

anyone can link me to some videos of David? interested in seeing more... thanks

Anonymous said...

For as many times I have been spanked, each and every time I have an erection, my wife could care less, she will hold it and let me know naughty little boys get spanked, not this. Her mother has been present on a couple of times and the last visit told her daughter to relieve me of this, the spanking will be felt more. My dancing afterwards, proved it was and so now she insures that I'm limp, I really feel very much like a little boy and naughty one at that.

Red said...

Bryan: an amazing quality, but definitely a younger man than many of us.
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

micheal: you are welcome
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

suzanne: so very true. As I age it does not always happen, like it always did five years ago, but still happens most times
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

Ron: as would I...
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

anon: sorry... use google and research a bit
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

anon: I am sure it is very effective... but have little to no desire to find out... sometimes I think of it while making love, but after orgasm for both of us, I have zero desire..
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

Apologies for not having found these comments and returning the favor by replying... must have been a scheduled post while I was away...
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

i start with one! but never by the end

Red said...

anon: very true for me also
bottoms up
Red

Scarlett Hill said...

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Red said...

scarletthill: thanks for permitting me to using the picture. It is time that I recommend people to your website, which has a very flashy opening screen. However, I will be out of town for a month (hopefully) ,and will do this when i get back.
bottoms up
Red

Scarlett Hill said...

Thanks Red! Look forward to your return!

Red said...

home again, and will start posting in a few days
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

The first spanking I got was after being tricked by my girlfriend. She pulled the pants down and underpants and out I popped. She smile and was soon enjoying it and it took awhile but I came. Now back to business she said and that spanking hurt more than any other. She told me afterwards, it hurt more because you were not erect and since then she insures I'm not erect prior to a spanking.

Red said...

anon: makes the spanking more effective, and less fun for the spankee. however, does include an orgasm, which is never a bad thing
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Its just agreed---too much drinking with the guy-and I get my naked butt paddled at home--no arguments--its got to happen---I shower and get it bare bent over holding my shins--It hurts alot---no erection----We have a very good sex life but getting my butt paddled is not a sexual thing--It hurts and I am kind of nervous still when i know i have it coming--

Red said...

anon: well, it certainly may cause you to think about over-drinking, which is a good thing to think about. In addition, it is consensual, as you know the paddling will occur if you over-drink. Maybe a friendly good boy hand spanking might be fun, if you come home on hopefully only the occasinal night out, having had only one drink. that spanking might lead to great sex
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

If I showed up with an erection in my panties for a discipline spanking, my late wife would require me to "deal with it" right there, while she watched. It's humiliating to masturbate while being watched, but knowing that within seconds of finishing (into said panties, btw), I'd be over her knee and the spanking would commence made it even worse....but much more effective.

mark

Red said...

mark: a spanking after ejaculation is definitely more severely felt by the spankee. thanks for sharing
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I my case I have no voice on the matter, the first time it felt good, but now I dread it, worse of all is when on a couple of occasions my mother in law watched,

Red said...

Anon: dread seems correct!I would dread it, ot the first time, but certainly anytime afterwards
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Its a good marriage--but once in a while for good reason my wife has to paddle my bare butt for something very serious--no argument from me she puts up with a lot--ALOT Little ritual or even talk before it happens-- No erection at that time though sex life is great---actually though I know I got it coming I am kind of nervous right before--It going to hurt I know---so its not a sexual time for me!

Red said...

anon: spankings help to solve problems. Try not making your wife put up with a lot, or even a little. A happier relationship is one where you both respect and think of each other before dong something foolish.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I am getting old but i still get hard alot--too much cause it happends at odd and sometimes embarrassing times---One time i have never been hard is when I get paddled by my wife---It is infrequent but it happens maybe a couple times in a yr--- for a whole lot of yrs now---I can not say I am scared--that is too strong a word---I do not know why --a bare ass apddling though really deserved---is just a time when I have ever gotten hard----I guess each guy must be different in that regard john cullen

Red said...

john: thanks for writing. we are all different, but thanks for sharing. I only sometimes get hard when about to be spanked, but readily afterwards if encouraged amorously
bottoms up
red

Anonymous said...

When my wife spanks me for maintenance or for punishment, I am given extra spanks if an erection occurs, generally 100 more with a belt or paddle. I am not allowed to have intercourse or masturbate on the days when I am spanked, as an additional part of the punishment. On the rare occasion that I am erect at the completion of a spanking, I automatically receive another one the following day.

Red said...

anon: oh, to be young again, when a spanking would not quiet an erection. Sounds like a delightful consensual marriage
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Spankings and erections are obviously related, but the question is : when ? In my experience, it can happen
- when I am threatened with a spanking I was secretly longing for
- when I am ordered to lower my pants and to 'assume the position'
- when (most often!) the spanking/whipping is being delivered
- when I kneel to thank her and/or am given 'corner time' afterwards
She, of course, decides if, and when, sex will follow - it usually does :-)

L.

Red said...

L: glad j is so accommodating with spanking you often, and usually having sex shortly thereafter. you are a very lucky man
bottoms up
Red

Kenneth Brix said...

Would you believe female discipline is in the Bible?
NO JOKE. It's real.

Wives are to "rule in domestic matters" (I Timothy 5:14; Weymouth's version). And the Bible gives 4 reasons for wives to discipline their husbands!

If you're interested, let me know.
And I will send you my 12 page article, "The True Biblical Marriage."
-- Ken
brixken7@cableone.net

Anonymous said...

I get a whole lot of erections--sometimes in embarrassing situations---but when my wife is going to paddle my naked butt--sex is sure the last thing on my mind---I sure have it coming and she has the right to paddle my bare butt however, I am always kind of nervous right before--no erection AT ALL

Red said...

thanks for the info, and i read the Weymouth quote.
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

anon: mine is spontaneous to hearing or knowing that a spanking is about to occur. My connection of sex and spanking is long standing (ha ha)
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Hi Red, This morning I went back to work for the new year but to start off on the right foot I put Robin otk bared his bottom and spanked him till his tears were pouring down his face. Just the way to start the newyear. Jan

Red said...

Jan and Robin: a good start, and best wishes for a happy new year
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

In a long and very happy marriage with great sex--when I have a very deserved bare paddling coming---and I know its going to hurt----I could not get an erection.My wife is a great person and a much smaller person than I but I know its going to hurt on my naked butt big time I do not feel an erection at all and I get hard a lot every singleday. I do not want to sound like a wus but when I need a bare paddling I am kind of scared--0-not scared of my wife---I just really dislike the pain on my bare butt---so nothing sexual happens then! I get what I have coming and it hurts

Red said...

anon: hope the spankings help moderate your behavior.
bottoms up
Red