22.2.12

Cindy well spanked

Cindy was spanked yesterday, in a somewhat consensual manner. A problem had been brewing for a few days.

I do not want to delve too personally in our lives, but Cindy has a habit of dominating the conversation when we are with other people. She is exceptionally good at asking more probing questions to whatever is said, or to continue on the conversation. Getting into the conversation is difficult, and if it changes, she is on top of the ball in the new conversation also.

I expressed my displeasure about it the first time when we were visiting friends, then two days later it happened again with lunch mates. I again expressed my displeasure.

Both times Cindy expressed her regrets and stated she would try much harder next time. That same day, other friends dropped by, and I had to be almost rude to be able to force my way into the conversation after waiting patiently for a significant time, and Cindy finally realized and then was a little more co-operative. However, at times I broke into private conversation with the man, as the two women continued talking.

After the guests had left, I stated that Cindy should be spanked for continuing this really unthoughtful behavior.

Cindy replied that she will try to do better, and I stated you said that two days ago, and earlier today, and yet you still did the exact same thing.

Cindy asked what was the name of my blog.. and I repeated "consensual", so she said I don't consent!!!

I replied well then, tell me what is going to make you remember. Maybe a spanking before friends arrive, or before we go out will focus you a little... It has worked miraculously for me when going to visit friends who are exceptionally nice people, but who talk non-stop. I stated her behavior is exactly the same as when you are with this other woman, and can NOT get one word in about anything except listen....

This was the point when Cindy realized.... OOOPPPSSS!

To solve the argument, Cindy stated that she would accept a spanking, but only with my hand. I countered that it will be much longer with my hand, and quicker if it is with the hairbrush, but it has to be one that gives her a little fuel to remember when next we visit friends.

So, to the bedroom, slowly baring Cindy's bottom, moving the chair in place, and taking my wonderful wife over my knee for a well deserved spanking.

A slow spanking, with a slow warm-up, allows for many more spanks. In between spanks there was discussion of why the spanking was happening (spank,, spank...), and how we were going to try to change things a little (spank...spank..spank) I was enjoying myself immensely, whereas Cindy was not enjoying it quite the same way... spank spank...

Her bottom was a nice glowing red from top to bottom, by the time I concluded the spanking, but with no spank ever causing a loud OWWWW, Cindy must have been over my lap for five minutes or longer, which was delightful. Her feet were touching the floor, and her upper body was totally supported, so she was as comfortable as possible while being spanked.

A warning: before we next visit friends, either a spanking should be given, or you will knowingly think about including everyone in the discussion during the visit. (No cornertime, but this nice healthy glow gives some indication of an effective spanking...This is NOT a picture of Cindy)What followed was a quick wash in the bath for Cindy, followed by a wonderful time (fabulous) love making. We role play a little, and this time seeing Cindy was spanked, I used a light amount of bondage, tying her hands, lying full body on top of her (which she loves) and sensually licking,kissing and sucking, eventually moving downwards for her to have a fabulous orgasms, followed by penetration and a fabulous orgasm for me also.

WE then lay in each others arms, fully exhausted, and supremely satisfied.

We eventually went out for dinner, and had a lovely meal with a glow from ear to ear.

Certainly glad that Cindy consented to be spanked.. it lead to a fabulous problem solving method.

Next day update: I teased Cindy that her bottom was a virgin pale white, unlike mine the next morning that is usually at least pink after being spanked the day before.

Happy Spankings
Red

3 comments:

  1. Red

    Wow, breathless on this post.

    Awesome

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  2. LOL, I sometimes dominate a conversation as well abs have been spanked for it:)

    Have a fun weekend Red.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  3. njspank: yes, the experience was awesome...
    Ronnie: Glad to know you have both fun spankings for no reason, and occasional spankings with a purpose. We are exactly the same...We are going out to visit family today, and I have asked Cindy if she would like a reminder spanking, but she said one would not be necessary... my reply was one will be waiting at home if she forgets... should be fun..
    happy spankings
    Red

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