5.12.10

women spanking men

The reality of men being spanked by their wife is being spread far and wide by bloggers.As I click on commenters, I am lead to other Female spanking male relationships.

One you might like to check out is

http://husbandincheck.blogspot.com/

Dana only posts occasionally, but he is very much in love with his wife, and with her spanking him. Thus, almost every post involves an update on their life and his most recent spanking.Are all of these sites real?

I tend to believe that most are, and that spanking of either the male, the female, or both, by their partner, is a common occurrence in a few households throughout the country.

Dana's first post: "After being married for five years my relationship with my wife has been turned around drastically since my wife is now in charge and I am taking orders and punishment when I need it. It is very embarrassing to me that I am subject to a hard bare bottom spanking but I am relieved that I am not alone. Today for example, I was given a list of chores to be done. Well, I didn't finish them all and a few were done not to her satisfaction. Before dinner I was bent over the end of the kitchen counter and got paddled about 50 times with her wooden paddle, yes on the bare. Well guys guess I am going to shape up. My first marriage didn't work but I think that this wife will keep me in line. "
Go take a look when you have time.

cheers
Red

91 comments:

widgets said...

redxxx:
It is the time we get wrapped up with ourselves. It is great when we wives have to open our husbands up with a warming reminder. Every so often you need one as does my husband.
Rachel

redxxx said...

Rachel: absolutely agree with you
cheers
red

BOB said...

Great photos! Thanks for posting them. I like the way that she wraps her leg around his legs to keep him in position.

redxxx said...

Bob: glad you liked the pictures.
Red

Anonymous said...

My wife paddles me every Saturday morning on my day off. Most of the time I deserve it from something I did wrong throughout the week. Thats ok, because when she is done I feel so much closer to her for what she has put me through.

Red said...

Anon: glad spanking works for both people involved
Red

Anonymous said...

I made my girlfriend angry one time and she (with friends) forced me down, stripped me and spanked me hard over their knees. They held my penis with their bare thighs to keep me in position and I almost came before they stopped. They found out I had an erection, humiliated me by laughing, and made me finish myself off in front of them. It was the most humiliating but erotic experience that I have ever experienced.

Red said...

anon: hope you still have that girlfriend.. many more fun times may be in order
Red

Red said...

I would imagine they do not pay the men, except with a spanking for free... reasonable business idea for both the spanker and the spankee.
Welcome to blogger bad 19 boy
red

Anonymous said...

Hi Red, great blog,just found it.
I showed my wife,who now realises I'm not alone or strange. We are both looking forward to my first spanking in a day or so.....film at 11.
Cheers
CD in NZ

Red said...

anon: Hi: You are not alone, but you still could be strange.... just kidding...
Good luck with the initial spanking, and be certain to talk and communicate with each other.
You can write and let us know how things progress
Have fun in New Zealand
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

We would never spank any children of mine. I think both parties have to be consenting adults, and over the age of 20... Any earlier ages could lead to domination, which is not consensual as the person is too young to really really know. However, if both 18 and frisky, play spanking could be okay, if it is a two way street.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

My wife began spanking me a couple of years ago. We began with playful spankings, but she quickly realized that I was always more obedient and attentive afterwards, so she saw this as a way to keep me in line. Now I get a thorough spanking at least 3 times a week. They are usually quite hard and are from 50 to 100 strokes, sometimes more. The sex afterwards is fantastic and she really enjoys admiring the after effects on my butt.

Red said...

anon: I thought i had replied but it has gone into the void.
Glad to know spankings are working in your marriage. Overtime, they may lesson somewhat as you adapt to doing the less important things her way instead of your way.
The sex afterwards is always fantastic
bottoms up
RED

Anonymous said...

At my request my wife regularly spanks and beats me and has done for over thirty years. It is wonderful and I am a very fortunate man!

Red said...

anon: Glad to know it is consensual, and that spanking is involved. However, I am uncertain of the word "beats', and hope it means spanking.
bottoms up
enjoy
Red

Red said...

Washington; read any of my labels that say spanked, and you see how I am spanked. Spanking children would never happen
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

anon: wonder if you are just having a lark.. talking about sister in law.. and no mention of your wife...

Red said...

This is what anon had posted... my reply was above this one.
i was spanked by my sister-in-law yesterday. she stripped me in her living room and ordered me to lie down on my stomach. it is not unusual for her [paula] to do this. even though i'm 10 years older than her, paula has always been in charge of my disipline. however yesterday was the first time she spanked me with her leather belt and it hurt so much i became hysterical. another first is that paula diciplined me right in front of her two girlfriends.
having two female strangers watching paula strip me was so humiliating i was sobbing even before that horrible belt started ripping thru me.
before yesterday my spankings had been in private, with paula gathering me over her knee and spanking me with her hand. also during my spanking paula would say nice things to me; calling me 'sweetheart' 'hon' and 'my little boy.' i lived to be in her lap and i would cry out 'yes mommy i am your boy.'
none of that happened yesterday. paula didn't talk to me, she laughed at me along with her friends. the belt really really hurt, and when my spanking was over i had to stand in the livingroom and apologize to her friends while they laughed at me. i'm very much afraid that paula doesn't love me anymore.

Anonymous said...

I love to be spanked by a beautiful lady

Red said...

anon; best to be first loved by someone, and then they are beautiful in your eyes, not the other way around.
Red

Anonymous said...

I am a married man for many years. I cannot understand
why I am so absorbed with the idea of being spanked.
I've certain giving my wife enough reson to do so.
Perhaps it's because as a child, I have never been
spanked. I think of myself being subdued, rendered
restricked (bound) and spanked. I may find that I
don't want it to happen, and it's all in my mind.
Would appreciate comments--male or female.

Anonymous said...

I would like to add to the above post. Anyone who has read it
will understand that I am new to this type of enjoyment (or whatever you may call it.) Just how did you approach your wife
regarding being spanked? Did you sugested it? Or was it your
wife's idea.How did you respond? I'm afraid if I bring up the
subject, she will regard me as odd. I really really like to have
someone...maybe Red help me out with this. Thanks, I think.

Red said...

Anon: I suggest you look through the beginning of many spanking blogs and you will see how other people started. People tend to discuss this when they begin a blog. It has been about ten years for us now, and I am a little vague on remembering.
I will try to post something in the future. Please do me a favor and send me links to any "how it all started: spanking" and then I will be able to provide these links to everyone.
I suggest you start at the Disciplinarywivesclub.com
Happy New Year
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Iwas surprised to read someone said they thought spanking of a husband was more common----I always thought I was the only guy---Its a great marriage and a wonderful wife---Rarely my moral conduct with my male friends is just too much for my wife who is very moral and religious----We both know when a bare ass paddling has to settle things---I have it coming and I shower quick and just go over her lap right out of the shower---and she paddles my bare ass and it hurts plenty! Then things are once agaqin great between us----I always thought I was the only guy

Anonymous said...

for the picture of the lady brushing her hair with the hairbrush. i am thinking ohh i want it used on me.

Red said...

anon: many more of us exist... and all different extremes. Glad you shared with us, and hope you like exploring my blog and others.
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

anon: pleasant dreams
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Wow-- I just found this blog! My ex-wife used to spank me often. At first she would hint at it in front of attractive waitresses or store clerks because she knew I would be aroused. Next it became if she thought I was disobedient, she would excuse us and take me to a private room to be spanked, often with her female friends within earshot! The Ultimate was when I stayed out all night drunk and she dealt with me in the morning. She left the bedroom door open, and I was hairbrush spanked ruthlessly over knee. Our roommate [Stacy] and my sister-in-law were home and saw it all! I loved it!

Red said...

anon: guess spanking did not work, if you are divorced. Hopefully you will be able to find a partner again, who you love enough to not drink in excess...etc...
red

Red said...

Just a heads up that I do NOT allow people to advertise themselves, except if they are bloggers, professionals or have websites that I am using.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

We have been married 22 years. on my last birthday my wife suggested she give me "birthday spanks" We did. I was embarrassing with my underpants down on my thighs over her lap but it was exciting. Now she wants to do it more often. Should I agreed

Red said...

anon: DEFINITELY YES!!! and enjoy
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

"Should I agree?"

Like 50 million men in the country are closeted spankos and
frustrated subs who have no outlet to explore their interests.

Run, don't walk, to the kinky ladies and see what they have in mind?

Anonymous said...

there are also many of us who want and need a spanking but can not find the lady to do it.

Red said...

anon: sad but true
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

About twice a year my wife does have reason to paddle my naked butt--She is a great wife and I am not always a great husband---I can go too far in some of my conduct---We both seem to know at the same time when bare paddling has to settle things---I am always consenting as i got it coming--She has put up with a whole lot--I just strip down to my skin and bend over and know my butt is going to hurt alot real quick--and it does--for a small women she has anamazing paddling arm---When its all over things are once again real good between us--It works

Red said...

anon: I could not agree more, it works!!!
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

My wife put me over her knee and spanked me with a hairbrush on our wedding night as she held me over her lap and delivered bottom roasting I will never forget she laid down the law on my behavior and how I would be treated in the future. As I bawled like a little boy being spanked by his mother I agreed to all her demands. That was 3 years ago and am still spanked as needed. I came to find out my sister gave her the hairbrush who advised my wife on the benefits of paddling my bottom. Robin

Red said...

Robin: I think that it must be consensual, and your being spanked for three year implies that it is consensual
could you possibly write more, explaining how it is that your sister gave your wife the hairbrush, and the advice.
I believe spankings solve problems,and bring the couple into a more harmonious relationship
bottoms up
red

Anonymous said...

My girlfriend spanked me for years, just to turn her on. I would usually perform cunnilingus and analingus on her afterwards. Then she started spanking me in front of her friends and sometimes she would let them take part. One time three of her friends were present and, with a very red rear end, had me orally satisfy all four of them.

Red said...

anon; not certain if this is true, but could be. or a wonderful fantasy
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I spank my husband for erotic fun. He gets red, I get wet. Last week was his birthday. My mother and sister came over for coffee and cake. I kidded him about a birthday spanking. To my surprise my mother ask could she donut. Without thinking I agreed. Soon he was over the chair with my mother using a hairbrush on his bare rear end. She did a good job. I got so horny I would have screwed him with everyone watching but mom finished and told me to have fun and they left

Anonymous said...

Sure you should. My wife spanks me. Standing in panties waiting for the spanking to begin is still embarrassing and exciting after 4 years

Anonymous said...

My wife suggested it as a birthday spanking vit lead to great sex. Now I let her spank me whenever she wants, usually once a month. It's only with a hairbrush, but it stings

Red said...

anon: sounds ABSOLUTELY DELIGHTFUL
enjoy
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

anon: I agree, say yes TODAY...

anon: We have been involved in spanking for 12 years now, and it is even better than ever, and our love making afterwards or the next day is loudly shouting ORGASMIC!. Once our windows were open in the summer, and the look on the neighbors face when I went out to bbq was funny! We should tell them how it is done, because that guy next door is an ....
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

anon: anon: it is a wonderful problem solving method, that leads to great SEX!!! everyone should try it.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Tonight my husband gets a birthday spanking. He's 50 so it will be good. I will have him naked from the waist down and stretched over a table. With his hands tied to the table legs. After I begin with a hairbrush, two of my girlfriends will "show up" as he's getting spanked. He will be very embarrassed but can't get up. I hope they also want to spank him for his birthday.

Red said...

anon:Hopefully you have discussed this possibility with your husband in advance, sometime in the past, and it was agreeable with him. This blog only accepts CONSENSUAL ADULT SPANKING!!!
bottoms up
Red

Merryslave said...

Merry and I met for a date at a spanking party, with her spanking me. Not long after, we got engaged, then married, and she has spanked me almost daily, for the 23 months we've been married so far.

Red said...

Slave: sounds like yo love your fate, and hope it is something tha tkeeps both of you happy
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I have been spanked (or whipped, caned, etc.) for 30+ years by N., my (late) first wife, and now by J. - and I expect this will go on for as long as J. sees fit.
J. claims that my backside has gotten tougher over the years, and now requires sterner "treatment" (which she duly administers!)

L.

Red said...

L; I definitely find that if I have not been spanked for a while, my bottom certainly feels the next spanking much more intensely.
bottoms up
red

gregsmythe51 said...

you are lucky guy

Red said...

definitely, both anon and myself
bottoms up
red

Anonymous said...

Married 26 years to my wife. I'm in my late 50s and was married once before. That first marriage didn't last because I had a need to be disciplined by a woman and my wife wasn't interested. When I met my current wife 27 years ago I put my cards on the table right away. For the 26 years we've been married we've lived a female led domestic discipline lifestyle. I am spanked frequently (sometimes more frequently than Id like. Lol) We have a wonderful stable and happy marriage. Spanking works!

Red said...

anon: nothing works for ALL couples, but spanking certainly works for some couples, even when there are times you wish you were not about to be spanked
thanks for writing
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Red, I got at least 4 girl friends who use bare bottom over the knee spankings on their husbands. The hairbrush and ping pong paddles are there favorite implements. We met for coffee one day and all of us discussed our spanking methods. Jan

Red said...

Jan: sounds delightful. The conversations would be delightful to hear, so anytime you want to share more, please do.
Wish you lived near us! If you ever want to make private contact, please send me a email!
bottoms up
Red

Thomas Brooks said...

Women discussing spanking, such a unique concept! Having made up my mind in my younger years, to never, ever, approach a woman, and simply ask for a spanking, I felt that a man should never do that, needless to say, it built up grief, inside my longing for it, and so, I let time act as a thief, to basically avoid that issue, now I feel bad because of it! Thank you women, for permitting to unload that longing.... Tom

Red said...

Thomas: not certain how to respond. First is finding a woman that you are compatible with,then see if she is willing to also spank you. you can always simply visit a dominatrix to satisfy the spanking need.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

In my case, I get spanked, whipped or caned often enough that I can stand J's "sterner treatment" - and thank her for it afterward...

L.

Red said...

L: the thanking is always necessary, and yes the bottom does toughen the more often spanked, but one still definitely feels the spanking
bottoms up
red

Anonymous said...

As an illustration of my "sterner treatment", L's derrière has felt the impact of my recently acquired bathbrush a number of times over the past few weeks (with all the desired effects!), but the cold Spring weather has - thus far - ruled out any forays into the woods... and their usual consequences (if you know what I mean)

J.

Red said...

A bathbrush can be extremely harsh, and as i have aged, the body shop bath brush is simply too heavy, as Cindy states I do not very much padding on my bottom. The other bath brush, from the Vermont country store of a long time ago, is however very, very effective.
Taking a twist to a stitch in time saves nine, a SWITCH in time might at least remove a couple of spankings if used immediately when needed.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

It's true that the bathbrush delivers a tremendous wallop (and I will use it only for 'special occasions'). Meanwhile, my trusted martinet should keep him in line - until the weather allows for some outdoors activity...

J.

Red said...

sunny warm days, and hot bottoms are soon to be the normal. Have Fun
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

always good to have a lady disciplinarian to keep me in line unfortunately been hard to find one the past few years seems none from New England area lately

Red said...

joe: try craig's list, or simply google searches while incognito, and there will be a woman for hire. Better yet, hope you meet a lady, where mutual attraction exists, and she is willing to keep you inline with spankings
good luck
bottoms up
Red

Chance_The_Dog said...

Hello Red and everyone else...
Recently my wife has agreed to spank and discipline me. She wasn't really in to the spanking thing before. She would give me short spankings really nothing to write home about. After spanking me I would kneel next to the bed and lick her ass and pussy until she would cum. But one time in my mind stands out. We were at a casino on a two night stay.
Well the first morning we were there of course I wanted some personal action instead of gambling. Well she was on a mission to play the slots. So as it goes I was a bit short with her whenever we would happen to meet on the casino floor. So around noon she told me that I was acting like a spoiled brat and to get up to our room. She said she would be up shortly.
Walking down the hall to our room the maids were busy doing there cleaning of the rooms. I got to our room waited thinking I was about to get lucky��
Well she came in in a huff throwing the door open a couple of maids were right across from our room. She pushed the door back but it didn't shut tight. She told me to strip and she wasn't being quiet when she told me this. I stripped and she got her hair brush out of the bathroom.
Pulling the chair away from the table setting it down in between the beds she told me to get my ass over there. She wasn't being quiet at all as she sat down and pulled me over her lap. She said spoiled brat husbands don't get sex they get their ass spanked. She spanked my ass and lectured me for maybe 10 minutes or so. There is no mistaking the sounds coming out of our room! The whole time I knew those women in the hall were taking it all in. Needless to say my ass was stinging and cherry red.
When she finished she said get dressed. I went along peacefully and going out into that hallway I could see the smirking knowing looks they all gave me. I don't know if my ass cheeks were redder or the ones on my face! The walk of shame but I will tell you this later when she had me licking her asshole and pussy I was like a wild man eating her out! I was humiliated by her spanking earlier but man I was aroused like never before. Crazy hey?
But now I am giving her little hints to expose the fact that she spanks me. I asked to tell her girlfriends her sister hell even that she say to them ( Can I call you back in awhile I have to give my husband his bare bottom spanking"
She would do this right in front of me. The thought of her taking this even further and spanking me in front of another female(s) really makes for unbelievable masturbation fantasies. A part of me is dying for this to actualy happen. And a part of me is like scared or nervous if it actually would.
If the opertunity ever happens I would do as she asks. Another thing is this I would like her to spank me in another room instead of always the bedroom.
It would be so exciting to report to her naked with the wood bath brush and be spanked in the living room right by the window or even in the garage!
I would like some of the women's feed back on this. Am I being selfish because her spanking me leads to my licking her ass and pussy for as long as she pleases. Sometimes she uses a strapon to stick in my ass.
But if I were your husband what would you do?
Well if you got this far I really appreciate your reading my first time reply.
Thank you Chane the dog

gregorpresnal said...

Good marriage--great wife---My wife is of a more religious and moral nature for certain conduct with male friends (infrequent) of which my wife finds offensive itake a bare paddling--We both seem to know at the same time when a paddling has to settle things--no disagreement about it---just want it done asap--so i take a quick shower and get my paddling right out of the shower sure it does hurt on my butt however, afterward things are once again real good between us---Since only she and i know about it no issue of humiliation or shaming---Only time I was nervous was yrs ago when children were home so I had to wait---and come home from work and get it over---I would think I am the only guy as this is not teasing, flirtatious etc---just a punsihment paddling totally earned but sore butt an y comments apprecaited thanks

Red said...

Chane: glad spankings work for you and your wife. As with spankings, she will decide whether to let other people know, or not. Thanks for sharing
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

Gregor: hope this is not you r real name. if it is, let me know and i will delete the post, and re-post as anonymous for you.
Spanking (consensually) helps in marriages to solve problems. Glad it works for both of you, and solves problems, making for a happier environment
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Two "outings" in the woods thus far... and more to come this Spring - not to mention what I am likely to get over the Summer...

L.

Red said...

L: the exercise is always good, plus the bending and stretching. enjoy
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I don't want to be spanked but me and my wife got into a argument today and she told me to be ready to have my butt blistered tonight and the last time she did it she had me crying like a little kid so I know I'm in trouble tonight wish me luck

Red said...

anon: best learn from this spanking, that there are better ways to solve problems than arguing. It is a lesson many people need to learn, and I am spanked for raising my voice ina discussion.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

There have indeed been a good many spankings and outdoors whippings over the Summer and Fall! Some - and the harshest ones - were applied when we were visiting J's sister in Burgundy, but others in S. France and NW Spain (whether in the open air, or in a hotel room). This is (and was) J's and N's MO - whether at home or not.

L.


L.

Red said...

L; absolutely, whether home or abroad
red

Anonymous said...

J. has kept me on a stern regimen since we came back from our Summer vacation. Two or three "sessions" a week - most of them with the thick paddle, the strap, the rattan cane or the riding crop! My backside is definitely 'in for it'. She claims that the skin of my derrière has gotten 'thicker' and more 'resistant' (which may be true after the years during which N and she tanned it!)

All the same, I don't look forward to what I can expect when B. (my sister-in-law) comes to visit over the Xmas season...

L.

Anonymous said...

I, too, was married twice -but, unlike anon, was/am regularly spanked or whipped by both. J. (my second wife) knew (and had witnessed) how N. - my late first wife - dealt with me when I misbeheaved, and she was only too willing to apply the same 'treatment' when we started dating -and later got married.

L.

Red said...

It is still only October, so maybe J will give you a bit of a rest, to be ready for Xmas
Red

Anonymous said...

No way! L. got his usual dose of spankings (± three times a week) between Halloween and Xmas eve - when B. joined us for our "12-days of Xmas" tradition (now in "full swing", if you see what I mean :-)

J.

Red said...

So very sad when your wife died, but you are very fortunate to find another wonderful woman to share life with.
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

J: a vigilant wife is a happy life
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Yes indeed - but I also 'acquired' a charming sister-in-law (B.) who is always ready to 'assist' whenever we get together -whether when we stay at her place in Burgundy, or when she comes to visit over the Xmas season (as is currently the case) and joins J. in our "12 days of Christmas" observance!

L.

Anonymous said...

That's what sisters are for! - and I am glad you appreciate it... especially after her recent visit!

J.

Anonymous said...

My "appreciation" is somewhat qualified... and my derrière has barely recovered from having the two of you go through the "12 days" observance! I know I can expect you to spank me 'as needed' when I deserve it, but I also know what to expect when we get together again this coming Summer!

L.

Red said...

L: life is never dull
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I like to keep him hopping!

J.