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women spanking men

The reality of men being spanked by their wife is being spread far and wide by bloggers.As I click on commenters, I am lead to other Female spanking male relationships.

One you might like to check out is

http://husbandincheck.blogspot.com/

Dana only posts occasionally, but he is very much in love with his wife, and with her spanking him. Thus, almost every post involves an update on their life and his most recent spanking.Are all of these sites real?

I tend to believe that most are, and that spanking of either the male, the female, or both, by their partner, is a common occurrence in a few households throughout the country.

Dana's first post: "After being married for five years my relationship with my wife has been turned around drastically since my wife is now in charge and I am taking orders and punishment when I need it. It is very embarrassing to me that I am subject to a hard bare bottom spanking but I am relieved that I am not alone. Today for example, I was given a list of chores to be done. Well, I didn't finish them all and a few were done not to her satisfaction. Before dinner I was bent over the end of the kitchen counter and got paddled about 50 times with her wooden paddle, yes on the bare. Well guys guess I am going to shape up. My first marriage didn't work but I think that this wife will keep me in line. "
Go take a look when you have time.

cheers
Red

43 comments:

  1. redxxx:
    It is the time we get wrapped up with ourselves. It is great when we wives have to open our husbands up with a warming reminder. Every so often you need one as does my husband.
    Rachel

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    1. We would never spank any children of mine. I think both parties have to be consenting adults, and over the age of 20... Any earlier ages could lead to domination, which is not consensual as the person is too young to really really know. However, if both 18 and frisky, play spanking could be okay, if it is a two way street.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    2. Washington; read any of my labels that say spanked, and you see how I am spanked. Spanking children would never happen
      bottoms up
      Red

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    3. Iwas surprised to read someone said they thought spanking of a husband was more common----I always thought I was the only guy---Its a great marriage and a wonderful wife---Rarely my moral conduct with my male friends is just too much for my wife who is very moral and religious----We both know when a bare ass paddling has to settle things---I have it coming and I shower quick and just go over her lap right out of the shower---and she paddles my bare ass and it hurts plenty! Then things are once agaqin great between us----I always thought I was the only guy

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    4. anon: many more of us exist... and all different extremes. Glad you shared with us, and hope you like exploring my blog and others.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    5. there are also many of us who want and need a spanking but can not find the lady to do it.

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    6. anon: sad but true
      bottoms up
      Red

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  2. Rachel: absolutely agree with you
    cheers
    red

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  3. Great photos! Thanks for posting them. I like the way that she wraps her leg around his legs to keep him in position.

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  4. Bob: glad you liked the pictures.
    Red

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  5. My wife paddles me every Saturday morning on my day off. Most of the time I deserve it from something I did wrong throughout the week. Thats ok, because when she is done I feel so much closer to her for what she has put me through.

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  6. Anon: glad spanking works for both people involved
    Red

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  7. I made my girlfriend angry one time and she (with friends) forced me down, stripped me and spanked me hard over their knees. They held my penis with their bare thighs to keep me in position and I almost came before they stopped. They found out I had an erection, humiliated me by laughing, and made me finish myself off in front of them. It was the most humiliating but erotic experience that I have ever experienced.

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  8. anon: hope you still have that girlfriend.. many more fun times may be in order
    Red

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  9. I would imagine they do not pay the men, except with a spanking for free... reasonable business idea for both the spanker and the spankee.
    Welcome to blogger bad 19 boy
    red

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  10. Hi Red, great blog,just found it.
    I showed my wife,who now realises I'm not alone or strange. We are both looking forward to my first spanking in a day or so.....film at 11.
    Cheers
    CD in NZ

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  11. anon: Hi: You are not alone, but you still could be strange.... just kidding...
    Good luck with the initial spanking, and be certain to talk and communicate with each other.
    You can write and let us know how things progress
    Have fun in New Zealand
    bottoms up
    Red

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  12. My wife began spanking me a couple of years ago. We began with playful spankings, but she quickly realized that I was always more obedient and attentive afterwards, so she saw this as a way to keep me in line. Now I get a thorough spanking at least 3 times a week. They are usually quite hard and are from 50 to 100 strokes, sometimes more. The sex afterwards is fantastic and she really enjoys admiring the after effects on my butt.

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  13. anon: I thought i had replied but it has gone into the void.
    Glad to know spankings are working in your marriage. Overtime, they may lesson somewhat as you adapt to doing the less important things her way instead of your way.
    The sex afterwards is always fantastic
    bottoms up
    RED

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  14. At my request my wife regularly spanks and beats me and has done for over thirty years. It is wonderful and I am a very fortunate man!

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  15. anon: Glad to know it is consensual, and that spanking is involved. However, I am uncertain of the word "beats', and hope it means spanking.
    bottoms up
    enjoy
    Red

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  16. anon: wonder if you are just having a lark.. talking about sister in law.. and no mention of your wife...

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  17. This is what anon had posted... my reply was above this one.
    i was spanked by my sister-in-law yesterday. she stripped me in her living room and ordered me to lie down on my stomach. it is not unusual for her [paula] to do this. even though i'm 10 years older than her, paula has always been in charge of my disipline. however yesterday was the first time she spanked me with her leather belt and it hurt so much i became hysterical. another first is that paula diciplined me right in front of her two girlfriends.
    having two female strangers watching paula strip me was so humiliating i was sobbing even before that horrible belt started ripping thru me.
    before yesterday my spankings had been in private, with paula gathering me over her knee and spanking me with her hand. also during my spanking paula would say nice things to me; calling me 'sweetheart' 'hon' and 'my little boy.' i lived to be in her lap and i would cry out 'yes mommy i am your boy.'
    none of that happened yesterday. paula didn't talk to me, she laughed at me along with her friends. the belt really really hurt, and when my spanking was over i had to stand in the livingroom and apologize to her friends while they laughed at me. i'm very much afraid that paula doesn't love me anymore.

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  18. I love to be spanked by a beautiful lady

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    1. anon; best to be first loved by someone, and then they are beautiful in your eyes, not the other way around.
      Red

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  19. I am a married man for many years. I cannot understand
    why I am so absorbed with the idea of being spanked.
    I've certain giving my wife enough reson to do so.
    Perhaps it's because as a child, I have never been
    spanked. I think of myself being subdued, rendered
    restricked (bound) and spanked. I may find that I
    don't want it to happen, and it's all in my mind.
    Would appreciate comments--male or female.

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  20. I would like to add to the above post. Anyone who has read it
    will understand that I am new to this type of enjoyment (or whatever you may call it.) Just how did you approach your wife
    regarding being spanked? Did you sugested it? Or was it your
    wife's idea.How did you respond? I'm afraid if I bring up the
    subject, she will regard me as odd. I really really like to have
    someone...maybe Red help me out with this. Thanks, I think.

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  21. Anon: I suggest you look through the beginning of many spanking blogs and you will see how other people started. People tend to discuss this when they begin a blog. It has been about ten years for us now, and I am a little vague on remembering.
    I will try to post something in the future. Please do me a favor and send me links to any "how it all started: spanking" and then I will be able to provide these links to everyone.
    I suggest you start at the Disciplinarywivesclub.com
    Happy New Year
    bottoms up
    Red

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  22. for the picture of the lady brushing her hair with the hairbrush. i am thinking ohh i want it used on me.

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    1. anon: pleasant dreams
      bottoms up
      Red

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  23. Wow-- I just found this blog! My ex-wife used to spank me often. At first she would hint at it in front of attractive waitresses or store clerks because she knew I would be aroused. Next it became if she thought I was disobedient, she would excuse us and take me to a private room to be spanked, often with her female friends within earshot! The Ultimate was when I stayed out all night drunk and she dealt with me in the morning. She left the bedroom door open, and I was hairbrush spanked ruthlessly over knee. Our roommate [Stacy] and my sister-in-law were home and saw it all! I loved it!

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  24. anon: guess spanking did not work, if you are divorced. Hopefully you will be able to find a partner again, who you love enough to not drink in excess...etc...
    red

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  25. Just a heads up that I do NOT allow people to advertise themselves, except if they are bloggers, professionals or have websites that I am using.
    bottoms up
    Red

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  26. We have been married 22 years. on my last birthday my wife suggested she give me "birthday spanks" We did. I was embarrassing with my underpants down on my thighs over her lap but it was exciting. Now she wants to do it more often. Should I agreed

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    1. anon: DEFINITELY YES!!! and enjoy
      bottoms up
      Red

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    2. "Should I agree?"

      Like 50 million men in the country are closeted spankos and
      frustrated subs who have no outlet to explore their interests.

      Run, don't walk, to the kinky ladies and see what they have in mind?

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  27. About twice a year my wife does have reason to paddle my naked butt--She is a great wife and I am not always a great husband---I can go too far in some of my conduct---We both seem to know at the same time when bare paddling has to settle things---I am always consenting as i got it coming--She has put up with a whole lot--I just strip down to my skin and bend over and know my butt is going to hurt alot real quick--and it does--for a small women she has anamazing paddling arm---When its all over things are once again real good between us--It works

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    1. anon: I could not agree more, it works!!!
      bottoms up
      Red

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  28. My wife put me over her knee and spanked me with a hairbrush on our wedding night as she held me over her lap and delivered bottom roasting I will never forget she laid down the law on my behavior and how I would be treated in the future. As I bawled like a little boy being spanked by his mother I agreed to all her demands. That was 3 years ago and am still spanked as needed. I came to find out my sister gave her the hairbrush who advised my wife on the benefits of paddling my bottom. Robin

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    1. Robin: I think that it must be consensual, and your being spanked for three year implies that it is consensual
      could you possibly write more, explaining how it is that your sister gave your wife the hairbrush, and the advice.
      I believe spankings solve problems,and bring the couple into a more harmonious relationship
      bottoms up
      red

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