The Dorothy Spencer Plan

The plan that we favor the best is the Spencer Spanking Plan.

If you have yet to read it, then simply do a search on Dorothy Spencer Spanking plan, or simply click this link.


"Written by Dorothy Spencer in 1936, the Spencer Plan is a highly structured, cooperative, domestic discipline agreement between husband and wife designed to promote and strengthen marital harmony and stability. Crafted with thought, humanity and balance, this contract may serve as an excellent starting point for those considering a similar arrangement -- married or otherwise. In her own words, "The plan was a wonderful success." "

The essence is that both partners can and will be spanked if they do something that has been previously agreed as a spanking offense.

Everyone is free to interpret the way they wish, and the terms spanking and whipping are a case in point. We would substitute simply the word spanking, totally removing any idea of using the word whipping.

In our situation, I am spanked much harder than Cindy! I would imagine in many couples, this is true. The Spencer plan does state that the man is spanked harder. In general, without offending anyone, in most cases the man is probably spanked harder than the female., probably simply because he may be more stubborn. :-)

( Are their any readers in this type of spanking relationship? If so, who is spanked harder?)

However, you can easily find sites on the internet where the woman or the man is brutally beaten! These websites, in my opinion, simply delve in sadistic pleasure! Unfortunately, there is a market as people pay to see these pictures and videos.

Dorothy wrote: "Several years ago I conceived the idea of settling domestic misunderstandings in our home upon a somewhat unique basis--the giving and submitting to carefully regulated corporal punishment."

"The idea of a modern spanking is to administer punishment when it is needed--then make up and forget the whole incident."

The main idea is a spanking contract:

"Establish causes that will produce the discipline."

"Agree upon the matter thoroughly. Don't leave the thing to the whim of the moment. Let your wife know what she will be spanked for, so she can watch her step and strive to avoid the discipline if she can. This is only fair."

"Let her do the same for you. You don't want her to whip you for just any old reason--as though you were a child. You want to know in advance just what will produce the discipline. Then you can regulate your conduct accordingly. This is the only sensible way."

"A modern spanking is not a dreadful thing to endure. It hurts a little, of course. It has to hurt to be effective. But there is no danger to it. The temporary hurt is beneficial--it gives them just the lesson they need--and when it is over, THE TROUBLE IS OVER."

There is much more in the plan. Read it when you have the time.

Are any of my readers following the concept of the Spencer spanking plan?

Maybe you might write and let us know a little about your relationship. Who is spanked the most often. In our case, the spankings might be 15 to 1, or possibly even more.

Aside: I really like the last photo of four from the boys-boarding-school.com in that it solves the problem of the Over the knee spanking situation. When over the knee, the top part of the bottom may not have any padding so to speak, and simply be skin and bone. Thus, spanking there could be dangerous.

The solution being displayed is that the man is then standing, and a little extra spanking is devoted to this non-red portion of his bottom. When standing, the padding exists to protect the bone, but not to protect the bottom from being spanked.

The woman being spanked is Miss Audrey Knight. One of the sites where you might find her is


The last photo comes from a blog entitled: http://myblogstany.blogspot.com The blog is in French, but I have left a couple of comments and have fun clicking on the sites links. I use yahoo tranlator to change mty English to the French language.

Last word: you can see pictures of people being badly bruised, and possible bleeding. None of this is a part of the Spencer spanking plan.




  1. Wow, I'm glad I found you and you are posting again. I've always enjoyed your blogging style of posting "personal" experiences combined with numerous other materials gathered from the web. Keep up the good work. It will interesting to watch the growth of this blog. Best wishes.

  2. No idea what you mean, but glad you like my blog.

  3. We started as a M/F couple but in no time I was over Her knee for a meeting with her hairbrush. NOw she is the leading partner. However noblesse oblige n'est ce pas ? If not ....

  4. Tony:
    if it works for the couple,then it's GRRRRREATTTTT!

  5. I dont spank my husband he spanks me. One point I would like to make is women tend to have more fat on thier bottoms. Men's bottoms tend to have more muscle. Would'nt it be more painful for men to be spanked?

  6. Anon: thanks for commenting... every spanking can hurt, and that is somewhat the point. However, any intelligent spanker uses only the severity needed to make their point appreciated.


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