day 12 of Christmas spankings

Day 12 happened, and I am lucky that many days elapsed between some of the spankings. These lapses were not deliberate, just caused by family visiting, and other per-occupations.

Day 12 was planned, but circumstances evolved so that it was postponed one day. Cindy was reasonably thrilled at that, so that she could savor the moment more.

The next day, when I walked into the kitchen for breakfast, Cindy greeted me even more warmly than normal, with a grin from ear to ear, and patted my bottom a couple of times while we kissed.  

A few more pats during the day, and Cindy stated it would be best to wait until after dinner for day 12. Cindy even called me later from the mall saying she was on her way home, and do not forget our plans for this evening.

I selected the leather five fingered black tawse type.
The color does not show, as we had to use a flash
We used a variety of positions, and Cindy made certain to make every spank count. The lovemaking after was simply beyond words.

One reflection: Cindy has learned how to spank hard, and effectively. Beware what you wish for. I now know why the holey implement is called "the Holy Terror". I cannot imagine doing this twelve days consecutively!

Here is the collection of implements used for the twelve days of Christmas! Day one starts on the right, moving to the left as each day progressed.

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consensual spanking day for men

totally my own idea, but if we have  a day when women should be consensually spanked, then it makes sense so that a week later men have the same delightful activity.

Here are a few ideas for the ladies, as to why they should be spanking their man. TODAY...

I am certain most submissive men would love this ...
The above caption could be very true....
The idea of a woman showing you she is in charge can be a huge turn-on for both the dominant woman, and equally sexually stimulating for submissive men.

Seeing your wife holding her mornig cup of coffee today will give it's own thrill.
This is just a great photo, and Cindy is becoming more and more sexually turned on by spanking me,and also enjoying dealing with any misbehavior ASAP

The knowledge that I find spankings sexually stimulating
and that she decides whether we have sex afterwards or simply stand in the corner
where she can admire her handiwork with implements
gives her extra confidence in being dominant.

So LADIES, you might decide to try one or more of the following:

Without a word, simply go to the spanking chair and point (this will send a delicious shiver through both participants
decide in advance whether you want to start with your hand
or maybe that dreaded spoon. See how delightfully it marks a withe bottom when used repeatedly on one spot
then maybe change positions and use a leather paddle
and/or  a wooden hair brush
Maybe today is the day you try that new TAWSE
or relax and slowly let the leather strap make him dance
The choice is yours, you can dress for the part, and savor his expression
but only for the serious aficionados 
Simply delight in the opportunity as much as  THIS LADY SEEMS DELIGHTED 

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day 11 spanking

It has been more than a week since we continued the 12 days of Christmas spanking. This day 11 happened on January 15.
The first rule, if you ever try this, is 



Yesterday, we added the "Holy Terror" a wooden paddle whit multiple holes in it, which I purchased a long time ago from Aunt Kays DWC website. It is no longer available.

We had discussed in the morning that this could be day eleven, but Cindy would decide after she came home from going out with a friend. Fine, as I had football to watch,.

When Cindy arrived home, her first words with a smile from ear to ear was that " This is day eleven"..  She has always stated be careful what you wish for, and takes great deight in reminding me of this.

I have described previously, so will refrain today, except to say multiple positions were used for my bare bottom to be spanked... OTK (chair), bending at the waist (abs engaged), kneeling on a chair while upright (really allows quite significant bath brush spanks)on the bed with a pillow inderneath to raise my bottom. Cindy propped against the backboard of the bed with me prone otk...

We did not take a picture as it was dark and would have needed a flash. My bottom has been sore and stinging all day, and I feel it significantly while typing. Glad the chair is padded.

The only drawback is Cindy was quite disappointed only using a couple of implements for two spanks, or three, or four.

Why not give this a try..... I think you will  enjoy (????) it.

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PS: the sex afterwards was amazingly outstanding.


when you arrive home

Sometimes, your  recent shenanigans lead to a quite certain future!
Your wife might be waiting at the stairs as you try to quietly tiptoe upstairs.
Possibly by the closet where you hang up your coat, you see a present is awaiting  your arrival
or quite possibly your wife actually greets you at the door
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gifs for today

Many people have the gift of being ale to create really good captions to add extra interest and excitement to a gif or photo.

and with a few, one can create a nice sequence of events
thus, when you have done wrong,
then you can expect little mercy
The above is a caning everyone would want to avoid (if it is actually real???)

but if this was Daenervs Targarven actually talking above a spanking ( Game of Thrones )
then this would be a more likely scenario
Only if the cane was being used poorly, would she then participate to show how it is to be used...

If you would like to see more of this type, be advised that some are extremely strong BDSM, beyond my taste of anything related to spanking gifs, but others are excellent.
The gifs came from

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day ten of the 12 days of Christmas

All is back to normal! Family has gone back to their houses, and we return to a lifetime of leisurely retirement. Thus, day ten raised it's spanking head.

One of the goals of this for me was to permit Cindy to experiment, and to practice with each implement over many days.

Thus, foolish me, I chose the cane for day ten. In my defense, it had been almost a week since the last spanking.

Cindy used the cane quite well, and had me yelping. She was proud of a few lines that were on my bottom, but no where near 12 (fortunately for me).

All other implements were used, and different positions were used.
Cindy did surprise me with the heart shaped metal studded paddle, striking the top part of my bottom in a downward motion. This is a normally virgin white area, so these spanks were exceptionally able to have a lot of feet dancing and owwing.
The photos are with, and without a flash. This second one clearly shows the red high on my bottom, but done with leather. NEVER USE WOOD THAT HIGH!
Cindy used every implement with vigor, and the last few implements exceptionally so, as they had only a few spanks for each implement.PS: Cindy really loves this long tawse, and this photo could well be, but is not, her! Such a fun loving smile of satisfaction.

smiles for today

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Ladies CONSENSUAL bottom tanning day

Wouldn't this be a delightful day for many readers, if we could make this a day celebrated globally.  Requirements might be a before and after photo

but some might then make her put her panties back on, simply to enjoy removing them for her
A hair brush is always a good selection to start with
As a gentleman, you should pause during the spanking to caress for both people's enjoyment

enjoy altering positions during the spanking
and alter implements for a different feel
dangling over the knee is excellent to encourage the feet to be dancing
and if you use the cane, make certain nice lines develop on her bottom
Thus, gentleman, enjoy the selection of position
and photographing the result
Fortunately, I have friends who remind me about Love Our Lurkers, so maybe someone might leave a comment about national spanking day.
This is simply a fun post, as many women spanking bloggers enjoy being spanked.
Next Wednesday I will propose a national men get spanked day.
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