C is spanking her husband

No  need to use real names, but I will call these friends C(the Lady) and G (the husband)...

ASIDE: These folks has talked to me about using spanking in their relationship, and I helped encourage them to try it. They both agreed that each of them would be spanked for necessity and also for fun.

Obviously, if they have found my website, they already had a feeling that this might be something to try.   The exact thing happened with Danielle and John. john was originally the one who instituted spanking Danielle, but being a strong woman, she researched, found my SPANKEDHUBBY.BLOGSPOT.COM and in chatting via email, she very quickly asserted herself as the prime spanker in the family, and John being the one spanked.

thus: maybe you might like to read the last couple of chats with C (the woman) and myself.

letter one:
Thanks to Consensual Spanking my husband is in the corner for 15 minutes after a very serious spanking.  Red he was not taking care of his health and out with the boys watching the World Series and Monday night football.  After visiting his doctor one of the good friends called who is a RN there and told me his Cholesterol was high again and so was his sugar.  I always have him write down the results and bring them home so I can adjust and work with him.........WELL MR G wrote down number that did not jive with what I was told.
Now his fanny is as red as his face.....and I have him writing his correct number 500 times along with the sentence    I WILL NOT LIE TO MY WIFE AND THE BARE BOTTOM SPANKNIG I JUST GOT WAS FOR NOT TELLING THE TRUTH ......SHE CARES ABOUT ME.
He has till Friday morning to write this and when he does he is going to be grounded and spanked this weekend......If he wants to lie to me like a little boy he will pay.

my reply:
seems like you have things well under control. I have been out of town for a while, so only catching up on my email now.

With your permission, I will use this as a post, but remove both your name and G's.


my reply: great to know you have a method to deal with problems, instead of incessant arguing, and giving each other the cold shoulder. Much easier for the person at fault to be given a hot well spanked bottom to solve the problem

Letter three had this title and drawing  :


My Thoughts: 
Spankings work, not forever, but for a reasonable amount of time, before they need to be re-applied.
Love our lurkers is a great time to see other spanking sites that you might like, so go to Hermione's site to get a full list of reasonably SANE, spanking enthusiasts. (I say reasonably, because my blog is also on the list, and sometimes I wonder about myself... :)

bottoms up


Danielle is spanking again

Not me this time, but here is a letter I thought you might like from John, Danielle's husband....

Hello Red,

The last couple of years, spanking was at a very low level in our relationship due to health issues. Now however Danielle took up spanking again and I had to write to you about it to avoid once again a fierce bottom warming.

She had told me again and again not to leave clothes and nightdress in the bathroom. In vain however till now.

I had to undress and wait nose in the corner.  (I always enjoy looking at women's bottoms, so I altered from showing a male in the corner... my artistic license to do whatever I please on this blog) 

Then she entered and found out I was doing others things. She was very annoyed and in no time I was over her knee bare bottom. Her knees were a bit lifted up by using a small foot bench.

For the spanking she used only her hand and a couple of implements.

One is her favorite. It's a kind of curved bath brush. (It's Bonnies from my bottom smarts favourite also). It came to our collection in a very strange way. I saw it on an internet page "Marketplace" where articles are on offer for the highest bidder.

My intention was to make a serious offer for this valuable instrument because it's very difficult to obtain in this country. Danielle however said: "Are you mad, make an offer of 5 Euro". Amazingly the owner accepted the offer for the set. It included a nailbrush and a kind of plateau for the soap. So that could be used too. Costs  of delivery were for us about 6 Euro's. However in the past the object did a marvelous job on my bare bottom as it did this time. The spanking was finished with the mahogany Valentine paddle. I even had some bruises after the session.

I had to write to you, to learn and enjoy. She is a bit annoyed I must say about visiting your blog and only being a lurker and not commenting. However my visits are only a fragment of what they used to be in the past. So I hope you won't blame me.  (Aside: no problem john, but I wish you would leave a occasional comment when you see something you like)

This day we had a cheque up in the Cancer centre in ...... They said everything was ok (no evidence of disease) Next year will be the last check-up because then it's five years after the last operation and the chance of a return is not much higher than when you look to someone who has never been ill.

Best wishes.

The best part of the email was that Danielle is still healthy!

However, it is also nice to know that she is back spanking John as needed.  Never known her to leave a bruise, so must have been an accident with John bouncing over her lap.

In addition, this means I had better be on my best behavior whenever we next visit.

thanks for writing John. Say hi to Danielle and give her our heartfelt best wishes and love.

bottoms up


love our lurkers Nov 17 and 18

As you have seen on numerous  spanking blogs, we are asking people who may not have added a comment to the post to consider leaving one today or tomorrow.

The idea in my mind is to give you a little nudge towards sharing the reality of spankings that might be in your life. (As always, this blog is for those 18 and over, and if you are younger, please leave and do something more exciting than reading blogs.)

Writing a blog has helped me connect with similar minded people, and seeing their normal every day life, with a little spanking to add some extra spice. Most women and men spanking bloggers are spanked, and enjoy it, although not necessarily while the spanking is occurring. Women, however, are more willing to share their everyday thoughts and adventures, which is great to read. Somehow, I am shy about writing that, but not about writing about my spankings.

If you visit a blog occasionally, PLEASE leave a short message thanking the person for their efforts, even if you are not currently in a spanking relationship.

I  am uncertain whose drawing this is, but if they would let me know I will link to their site, or remove it if they desire it to be removed.
I love this piece of art, so if you know the artist, I would like to see more of their drawings.

What I like about this is that the woman looks unperturbed that someone has seen them, but the man is shocked, and very embarrassed.

I imagine the shyness is not wanting anyone who is not into spanking to know about our lifestyle. Having met so many people in my life's work, and in officiating, I do NOT want any of them to know.

Thus, I always recommend: to anyone who might be leaving a comment to:
create a secondary email account, from a site that you never use except for spanking related messages,
do not use any data that is real when creating that account,
never save a user name or password on your computer for this account
and always use a specific browser that you normally do not use, and use it incognito if possible.
with the prevalence of computers on your phone, this becomes more troublesome, so maybe turn off the suggestion mode so that accidently someone does not see what pops up.

You can always post as anonymous, but with fiction writers using anonymous, your comment might not appear, unless it rings true... One unfortunate person keeps wanting to write about his fantasies, instead of going out and living life.

and always smile

I believe a list of spanking bloggers that are posting  "love our Lurkers" can be found on Hermione's blog         http://hermionesheart.blogspot.com

 enjoy life
 and remember
bottoms up


this will worry a man

When you walk into your house, and your wife is there waiting for you....
whether she is siting
or perched on the end of a table
 Your fate is sealed
and a long tawse used to spank you is a very daunting spanking. I know from experience.

bottoms up



thought for the day

Whether male or female, if you are reading this blog...
as for me,
 if she read this post, her answer might be this
or this
 now, do you still think that was amusing
is this possibly changing your mind
well, she is satisfied with her work
bottoms up


why she was spanked

Ever wonder why, if you see a woman walking and holding her booty
Is this what had happened shortly before you saw her
 Could this be the reason
Seems like a good  reason to me.



four horse

Never call your wife four horse....

A man asked an American Indian what was his wife's name.

He replied, "She called Four Horse". 

The man said, "That's an unusual name for your wife.
What does it mean?"             

The Old Indian answered, "It old Indian Name. It mean,

...........NAG, NAG, NAG, NAG!"
so little communication is needed after the joke..


and now she is happy.
bottoms up


Say it out loud

I would, if Cindy asked!
 Actually, I probably have stated it many times
One would not bare your bottom to be spanked, or tawsed, or caned, if you were not a submissive!  this photo states it all


However, their are degrees of being submissive, as yesterday's post showed.

How submissive are you, to your partner's fantasies becoming reality?

bottoms up



adventurous tuesdays - same sex

Have you ever kissed someone of the same sex, romantically?
Many men, myself included, find it erotic to watch two women kissing, and making love, as do a few/some/many women. (I have never known, as men will talk things freely  with their buddies, but women are never in the conversation, and it is difficult question to ask a group of women.. 
A interesting phrasing of an offer
The thought of Bettie and Veronica is fun 
a interesting idea...
Here, Veronica is taking the lead!
I imagine the danger of taking the first step is frightening
however, the outcome is predictable  if both parties are willing
Sometimes, one wishes they had known more earlier in life... such that in my case , I would have been submissive much earlier... and maybe, just maybe, I might have explored a same sex affair.

If you could go back in time, would you have explored a same sex affair?

All I can say is...
 If  this was your partners fantasy, would you agree
 would you agree if she just was with another woman
or would she agree if you were just with another man....

Would you agree if she wanted a threesome... with another man, or with another woman..

So many tumblrs,
so many thoughts!!!! 
Thoughts that were fantasy
but any and every imaginable situation can now be found on tumblr with pictures of real people.

We have never had a threesome, and have no plans to ever have a threesome.

any response from readers?

bottoms up