I am reasonably certain that every individual gets a little grumpy from time to time. Their is no specific reason, and if asked, one normally gets a little offended, in that you think you are being  reasonable in each of the instances when something is not exactly the way you think it should be.

I succumb to this malaise, specially after I have drunk too much wine the night before. (one might call it a hangover, yet no headache exists, but the body is tired)
Cindy eventually realized a spanking would chase away the grumpiness, and thus I was spanked.

Cindy stated for us to go to the bedroom, and that I should retrieve the heart shaped metal studded leather paddle, and the bath brush.
Bare bottomed, over Cindy's knees, she started hard and hot with the paddle, and I was responding in no time with a few noises and some feet movement. Cindy was intent on doing a memorable spanking, as she used both glancing upwards and downward strokes, then square on full force, staying in one s pot for a while, then moving to another spot, and then varying the position of each spank. She lectured about my drinking too much wine, which I acknowledged readily.
A pause occurred, as she put the leather paddle down, and then picked up the wooden bath brush. Afterr a few spanks, and feet dancing on my part, I moved forward on her knees to give my shoulders a bit of a rest. Cindy paused to ask about my shoulders, and when I stated they were a bit sore, Cindy had me get up, and we moved to the bed to continue the spanking. My shoulders were not meant to hurt, only my bottom.

Cindy sat against the back of the bed, and  I was stretched over her knees, thus no weight on my shoulders whatsoever. Cindy recommenced the spanking, and the lecture, and gave me a very thorough spanking. when Cindy was finally satisfied, she stopped.

We then cuddled, I thanked her for the spanking, and kissing lead to more exciting adventures, as the love making and eventual orgasm for each of us was amazing!
Grumpiness solved, and wonderful sex!

Spankings work
bottoms up


clothing optional beaches

I enjoy visiting clothing optional beaches,
and am very happy to wander the beach without clothes.
Cindy is not as comfortable as me, but if far from home, she will remove her bathing suit for most of the day, and also go swimming naked. Cindy is remarkably beautiful, with nice natural breasts. It is very good to see people's natural bodies, but you do unfortunately see women who have whad their breasts enhanced. SO SAD!!! Every size and shape is beautiful, except artifically enhanced!
We visit club Orient every time we visit St.Maarten, and the only fee is to pay for the chairs and umbrella that you rent for the day, about $20.  Most men do not worry about how they  look naked, whereas women are more modest (usually) This next photo seems to give truth to the statement!
If you enjoy these type of pictures, and specially if you like the men naked and the women clothed, then

you should visit 
There are a number of CFNM pictures
in addition to beach photos
so take that photo with a naked person soon
but remember who is in charge, so do not insist she take her clothes off at the beach
bottoms up


spanking while sitting on him

Some people like experimenting with different positions for the person being spanked.
Have you tried the man kneeling when he is being  spanked?

The woman would be comfortable

She can have great leverage for each stroke
and the discomfort of the position
 added to the spanks leads to an even greater submission

try it once
bottoms up


the belt

 It is so very convenient that a man wears a belt
but he might take it off just to hand it  meekly to his wife who knows how to use it
Here is one delightful use of the belt
or he might have to bring the belt to his wife for her usage

but if the man is holding it
or the lady is required to bring it to her husband
The lady will be nervous
 She knows best to bare her bottom and resign to her fate
her bottom will soon be on fire
The yelps will be real

and the apology will be sincere
enjoy using the belt
bottoms up


Spanking humor artwork (your daily dozen)

Time again to reach into the vault for some spanking humor from yesterday!!
 you can find many more at http://the-art-of-spanking.tumblr.com/


Dresses are fab (specially commando)

Today is dedicated to women having fun, and I promise you that men certainly enjoy it.
Posing for photos certainly ramps up the excitement level
and having earlier decided to go COMMANDO specially for the photos
Almost commando, but Emma is excused, and look lovely
This is so much fun, even if you are just going for a stroll around the apartment block
or taking a rest while shopping
what a delightful stop for coffee.. and is the saying coffee, tea, or me..... the me wins absolutely

There are advantages to a breezy day
 and advantages for low  tables so as not to block the view
anywhere, any time
and a stroll in the park can be delightful

Personally, I wish that they had cell phone cameras when I was young. It would be fun to look back on some of our risque adventures! however, we do have many from different vacations with Cindy being naughty, totally on my suggestion!!!!
Yes, it is worthwhile being naughty!

bottoms up