maintenance spankings

Maintenance  spankings!

Do you regularly follow a procedure such as a weekly spanking, no matter how good your behavior has been?
Are you hoping I would forget?

I think you should just follow me, upstairs, NOW1

What a nice white canvas to paint red for you dear
You know
This is for your own good
 We both have been much happier since I started spanking you
Isn't that right dear?
 Yes Ma'am
So, a few more with a LFOURISH SHALL WE?

Now dear, was that a helpful reminder for the next seven days!
Yes, Ma'am!
now, go stand in the corner until I tell you that you can leave, and think of how good and thoughtful you are gong to be this week!
Do you have weekly maintenance spankings? I am asking Cindy to try this for a while, and see how it works. I will keep you informed as to our progress.

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The goal in life is to be happy.
This is a wonderful guide to remind yourself, when life's troubles and anxieties start to get the upper hand.

We both try to follow these ideas, albeit some more than others, because one can never be perfect.
And Cindy's s panking implement does all the talking
Spanking has helped solve little problems, but they would never solve major problems.
A rather easy joke to figure out if you understand spanking relationships between consenting adults 
 bottoms up
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mature spankers

The wonderful thing about TheThingWeDo  is that there are really no age limits.

Exception 1: on this blog, no spanking of children, or of being spanked as a child, ever appears on my blog.
Exception 2: Health and age are the only limitations
Thus photos of older women are totally appropriate 
and a pleasure to see, 
as men can admire and wish/worry about being spanked by one of them
Men realize that these are experienced spankers, so the spanking will be REAL
and you will be very well and thoroughly spanked
The last delightful thing is that age is not a detriment for someone to be a professional spanker
just a desire to give a real spanking

pleasant dreams
Okay, so I have this set of captioned photos that are funny, but could really be thought to be inappropriate. 

hope that is a smile...  or are you shaking your head.

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a couple plays in a BDSM room

Having conversed with Marco many times, I can assure all readers that this is a real couple's adventure.. I have previously published some of their activities.

"Lindsay and I had a great day in a BDSM-room last month.

Lindsay and I went to the dark room on this occaision.
I think it's safe to say that we are Dutch and did visit a German BDSM-room for rent.
We hired the room for 90 minutes and brought a lot of our toys too. The dominatrix was a very charming woman and told us that '90 minutes or more isn't a big deal.....just have fun and take your time'.
I think she enjoyed it a lot knowing that Lindsay was the dominatrix.

Lindsay spanked me a lot and the marks of the day were visible for more than 3 days after the event.

I assured her that I loved every part of it.

While I was strapped to a 'spanking chair', Lindsay put on a rubber glove and probed my a great deal......she used her own 'fluids' (Lindsay was soaking wet!) to get the glove wet.

The time flew and Lindsay had a great orgasm as I went 'down on her'.

I was allowed to climax 'between her calves', after a few brisk spankings. 

Lindsay didn't want me to climax 'just like that' and spanked me when she felt I was 'getting to close'.
The BDSM-room was very tidy and well equipped.

Lindsay agreed that we should be visiting it again in a few months!

I love my wife!

The lady who runs the place is also visible on the website, but we didn't play with her. It was just Lindsay and me.

We keep BDSM and sex between the two of us. Of course.


Has anyone else been adventurous and tried this/

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effectively spanked

I am sometimes my worst enemy, and say things or get grumpy without a reasonable cause. Yesterday, this once again reared it's head, and we had a very small tiff.

While Cindy was out on messages, I came back to my senses and realized that being spanked would settle the waters, and calm my feelings of bein grumpy.

Deciding that I should be spanked is a good step in my opinion, and I was certain Cindy would agree.

I first placed three pillows on top of each other on the bed, and practiced being over them bottom up, so that angle would be fine. Implements were then retrieved for Cindy to choose from, or request something else. The implements I put out were the long leather tawse, the teacher's crooked cane, and a straight thinker cane.

When Cindy arrived home, I apologized for my grumpiness before, and ill-advised words, and asked she spank me. She accepted both my apology, and the request to be spanked.  I stated I would go upstairs and stand in the corner until she was ready.

When Cindy arrived in the bedroom, she was delighted to see the set-up and the implements, and complimented me on my choices. I had been thinking she would choose one, or use each for maybe what is called 'six of the best', but that was not to be the case.

Being told me to take off my underwear! I quickly was naked and over the pillows. Cindy questioned if it was good for my back, and I responded it seemed fine.

The long tawse was selected, and it was applied strongly across my bottom, causing feet dancing and squirming with each stroke. No such thing as 'six of the best' as more than twenty strokes were given, slowly until I was really performing feet antics. (straight out, knees firm, straight up knees bent, and in between dancing to Cindy's amusement. "This must be really effective!" Yes, dear.  Throughout this part of the spanking, a lecture was delivered about my behavior, with my agreeing to every suggestion Cindy made. (The long tawse does create this reaction at times)
Cindy stated well let's try this cane NOW, shall we? Yes, Dear!
Quick, strong, whippy strokes traveled all over my bottom, and occasionally beyond the crease of bottom to legs. A pause to review the lecture, then more spanks. My bottom was really on fire.

"Shall we finish with using this other cane?" was a question that I did not have to answer. Yes, Cindy stated, that seems to be a good idea.  (photos is obviously not me, but a decent example of a lighter shade of red that my bottom was displaying)

A number of strong cane strokes, then Cindy moved to the other side of the bed to make certain each cheek was well caned. More than twenty strokes were given with each implement.

When Cindy decided she was finished with spanking me, I was permitted to rise, and I thanked her immediately for the spanking. She said "you are welcome", and you may look in the mirror.

My entire bottom was red, with a number of discernible cane strokes at the top of my bum, and red every else.

I felt much better after the spanking, sore, but happy. (this is NOT a picture of me, and my bottom was both redder, and far greater coverage)

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My bottom is still VERY sore today, but the redness has totally disappeared.