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Don't tell my friends what i'm into

Some women ENJOY being spanked!!!    If you have ventured to some of the sites that are listed on Hermione's page about love our lurkers, you will find many women bloggers who write about their enjoyment in being spanked. Ronnie, Hermione, and Bonnie are three just to start exploring with!

I can picture this  delightful scene where Ronnie bakes a pie for P
or maybe Hermione is holding the belt
and it is lovingly applied to warm her bottom)
However, if you like pictures of women being spanked , then this tumblr is definitely your cup of tea.
She is being shown the bath brush
possibly a few spanks were needed, as shown by a bit of a rosy bottom, before she acquiesced to having her panties lowered 
and then it was delightfully applied
here is the site
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naughty commercial banned in UK

Tís a sad day, when suggestive humor is forced from the airways!


This commercial is delightful!!!! WATCH IT!!!

I would definitely purchase this wine, just to be able to savor it, and be almost able to "taste the bush"
The placement of the red wine is very cunning!!!! (snicker snicker)

Oral sex should be encouraged, as another way to delight each other. Fortunately, young people know about it, and do not have the inhibitions my generation did.

Both men and women deserve orgasms, and many women cannot climax from intercourse, and a gentleman should always make certain that his partner orgasms every time they make love..

It took me some time to realize this in our marriage, where discussing sex was really strange to do when we were first married.  Early in marriage, we visited Paris, and had no idea what a bidet was used for.
It took a while for me to realize, with Cindy's encouragement, that orally pleasing her is an absolutely wonderful experience for both of us. It also  took a while of encouraging Cindy to shower or take a quick freshen-up bath before sex, similar to using a bidet. For those ladies still uncertain, if you have been using public toilets, the aroma of a toilet bowl is not an encouraging smell for oral sex.

So, if you ever see premier estates wine from Australia, purchase a bottle and #taste the bush

If not, you should taste the BRUSH!!

 Both are delightful

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oops, I misspelled

I knew some might not like this
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having fun

Best to move on, and enjoy life... keep enjoying life, and every airstrike against ISIS..

It is not the bait you use, it is how you wriggle your lure

As for the religious idea of creation:

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one last thought then I am taking a week or more off..

We cannot let these terrorists control our life and thoughts. We have to let the government unite and take action against them.

In a terrorist war, it is hard to distinguish the terrorist from the civilian, and to defeat them, or at least marginalize them , some civilians will die. 

If gunfire comes from a building, then to protect our soldiers, it would be best if artillery destroyed the building.

If a known terrorist is in a specific location, but with civilians nearby, my opinion is take out the terrorist!  Civilians permit and enhance the terrorists, working in the oil factories to produce oil that is sold to give them money.

I have just finished  reading
Hitler's Furies, about women who helped in the offices of the SS , Gestapo, etc, those that helped or worked in the death camps, etc...and  teachers that moved into the conquered lands to educate the masses, the nurses who euthanized the sick the elderly, including their own seriously wounded German soldiers... 

It makes an eye opening read of just how many people helped make the war, and helped kill the 6 million Jewish people, and millions more.

Also, I am just finishing reading : Jeff Shaara : the fateful lightning, which describes General William Sherman's march through the South (Georgia, South Carolina, North Carolina) in the last year of the USA civil war. He destroyed railroads, many cities (wood structures) were burnt to the ground, any building where his troops were fired on were burnt to the ground, the slaves that flocke4d to his army for their freedom! Much more is in this book, but he starved the Confederate armies and thus weakened their resolve. The case is made that .the people were made to feel the severity of the war, not simply the soldiers who had to die fighting it. The people at home sent their sons and husbands to fight, while they  used slave s to produce the food to send to the army, produced the artillery and arms to fight with, and assured that no soldier would flee the fighting so as not to embarrass their name or honor...

These two books really is altering some of my thinking regarding civilians in a time of war.


I had a few emails that I did not publish, basically stating what I should do, ....get back to writing about spanking, and stop bringing the real world into their fantasy.

The funny thing is that almost  ALL ANONYMOUS, so I deleted them.

When you see reports that an air strike has killed some civilians near-by, although sad, these civilians are choosing to live in the midst of the ISIS!

However, ISIS continues to kill innocent civilians in Iraq, and take young girls as sex slaves.


Kurdish forces discover two mass graves after freeing Iraqi town from ISIL control 

then again:

you can read of ISIS attacking another terrorist organization....Hezbollah,..but they do this by killing civilians..

So, maybe, it is best to not dwell on the sadness in the world, and rejoice the freedom we have! Whenever next in Paris, be certain to eat outside, and raise a glass of wine (red for your health) to life!!! The terrorists can never win!!



142 students killed in Kenya. Where’s the international outrage?

When went down,the world stood up for them. 

When went down, the world forgot its feet. 

I will not belabor the point, but if you never read this, you should...

Here is the link


Sadly, there are many more instances like this! This means we must stand-up and fight this insane terrorism, not defensively, because everyone everywhere is a target, but aggressively, making them the target!!!

These were Christians, so the Muslims were spared, and the Christians were executed.


Terrorism :my reactions to your comments

Cat said: My heart is breaking for those in Paris and I totally agree with you that something has to be done about ISIS NOW!

Cat: We agree, that something was be done, and that means attacking them with land forces and destroying them.

archedone stated: Red as a Vet I agree with you. Many people are against the wars we have been in since WW II. What they don't understand is we have NOT been involved in wars. they were conflicts. They have declared war on us now we have to declare war on them. With our might and the assistance of other free countries we could go thru the Arab country and destroy them within a year at the most and then it would be over. do it right or get out.

Archedone:  i doubt if it will ever be over, and certainly not in our lifetime..Thinking the 100 years war (catholic vs Protestant...) is now Sunni vs Shiite, and extremists against everyone! However, they should not be able to control ANY TOWN or village, and should be attacked wherever they set up camp. We can reduce them to a minor force, but all it takes is one idiot to attack!

Ed stated: Well said, brother. Conviction and ferocity of force wins the day. And as another Vet, thank you for your service. And Red, as a new reader, thank you both for addressing this issue, and for an extraordinarily wonderful blog.

Ed: determination is needed, and civilians will die in the attacks! However, they are only attacking civilians, or soldiers at rest, without weapons. (ps: glad you like the blog)

Ralph stated: well i think your absence is ok, all of our lurkes have to be present with you,
kind regards, ralph from germany

Ralph; thanks for writing

another person from Germany wrote:
Yeah, because we all know how well violence has worked against terrorism in the past. Seriously, Red, as someone from Europe who's seen all of the recent events, I cannot stress enough how little help all these "Muslim invasion" comments, specifically from the political right in the US, have provided! They have nothing to do with the reality of the situation in Germany, France or Eastern Europe. To conclude that the vicious attack in Paris yesterday has anything to do with the current refugee crisis is not justified by anything, apart from the few "Culture Warriors" who want to make this into a war between civilizations and don't realize how little that helps with anything! I won't even get started on the current war against ISIS, in which the US didn't do anything until recently purely for geostrategical reasons, until Russia decided to put up their own operations in Syria. If you really think that an invasion of Syria is the right thing to do, you can't have paid too much attention to the effects of the Afghanistan and Iraq wars in the past decade.

I could ramble on, but why bother. If you want to turn this site into a Breitbart-style comment page, go ahead. But I'd suggest you start another blog for that. I really enjoy most of your posts here, Red, but I don't want to come here for these kind of political discussions. If you think they should have a place here, it's your blog, but just know that at least one of your readers has no interest in these discussions whatsoever.

Best regards from Germany, and #‎NousSommesUnis‬

Anon: I have never read the Breitbart website. What is needed is removing  ISIS from controlling any piece of land, and that can be done. Throwing our hands up in despair, and doing nothing is not the solution.  We joined with the Soviet union to eradicate Hitler, we need to join with them; and other countries, to wipe out any ISIS controlled anything.

SMUCCATELLI STATED: Couldn't agree with you more. As the conservative pundit Ann Coulter said: "Invade their countries, kill their leaders and convert them to Christianity". Maybe not the last part, but at least bomb the shit out of their "caliphate", kill their leaders and give the survivors the choice of renouncing radical jihadism or looking forward to more "martyrs"..

Smuccatelli; bomb and invade.. they should be given no place to hide. No conversion of religion, but let them be radicals hiding in the hills, but not controlling land areas!

Baxter stated: I support whatever you do with your blog, but as another said above, I come to it for spanking fun, not tirades about current affairs. I go to Aljazerra, NY Times, Washington Post etc for information on current affairs. As concerns the middle east, I believe the US has a part to play but so do many other countries. And if the US is going to play a part, then we need to have a plan, execute the plan, and then get back to US soil. We have the means to kill ISIS, but we need the will to do it. We cannot have another Iraq war fiasco.
Bring back the spanking blogs

Baxter: I will return to this being a spanking blog in a while, but it seems too unimportant for the current time.

JWLR: Hi Red, Long time reader here but rare poster. Sorry to hear of your decision to suspend but I respect your choice to decide. Yes, its an invasion and our country is run by the enemy. God help us all.

JWLR: I disagree that America is run by the enemy.

Really folks:
Public opinion has to be raised that America once again join with our ALLIES, and the Soviet Union to wipe out ISIS.

I have little interest in discussing spanking at the moment.



Comments.. about the tradegy in Paris

I will respond to the comments about the attacks in Paris... in a day or two from now...

for TODAY:

a Re-Think of life is needed!



terrorism in France

I have many things to say about the invasion of muslims into Europe, and into Canada.

In respect for the people who have died in the terrorist attack in Paris, I will pause this blog indefinitely, and will from time to time in the next week express my views on how ISIS should be attacked and wiped from the face of our earth.

My opinion, is they should be dealt with the way Nazi Germany was attacked.

Civilians will die, as will many of the terrorists. The civilians can either revolt against the oppressors (ISIS) or side with them. They cannot be the reason where only surgical strikes are done to try to kill identified ISIS members.



love our lurkers

Hello to everyone, with a special hello to those who come by this blog regularly or occasionally, but rarely (if ever)  leave a message!

First-most, let me thank you for visiting my blog, whether you leave a message or not!

However, the reason for LOVE OUR LURKERS DAYS is to encourage you to post a comment saying Hi!  Comments are the lifeblood of blogs, and although I have a few faithful commenters, it is always nice to find new people leaving an occasional comment about their likes and desires, and possibly their spanking relationship with someone.

I attempt to keep a humorous vein to the blog, as I believe spanking is an enhancement  to a happy couple's love, if it is consensual! 
If you don't spank, do NOT do this alternative:
Within these spanking blogs, tumblrs, and Wordpress, you will find like minded individuals, and encouragement to pursue your dreams.

Be certain to post using ANONYMOUS, but then think up a fictitious name that you can use at the end of the post,so that when you next leave a comment, you can use the same name and people will get to know you.

and, when confounded by this conundrum
The answer to the conundrum is predetermined
your fate
and soon your feet will be dancing
REMEMBER: The goal is to enjoy life!!!

but remember also, many women consensually
don't disappoint her if she enjoys it

For a list of other spanking blogs...etc.. that are participating in Love our lurkers




On the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month of 1918 an armistice between Germany and the Allied nations came into effect. 
 On November 11, 1919, Armistice Day was commemorated for the first time. In 1919, President Wilson proclaimed the day should be "filled with solemn pride in the heroism of those who died in the country’s service and with gratitude for the victory".

We salute every veteran, of our country, and of our allies. I take a pause for this blog's usual topic for today, to remember all that has been sacrificed for our freedom,  and to honor those who serve our country by being in the military.

In many countries, Veteran's Day is called Remembrance Day...
The TEXT is very touching!

The text, in case you cannot read it...
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.



tumbling into other eroticisms(adventurous tuesday)

Tumblr has to be one of the nicest places to bounce around in.

With a  tongue in cheek concept, it wins hands down  (oops.. watch what those hands are doing) inner in exposing kink searching individuals to see other facets of our restricted lives.

Delightful place #1 to visit:
What I love is that Cindy has never worn something like this, and I did not know they existed... with the added bonus that some are everyday postings from individuals, not website manufactured models
You might also like to visit:

http://bossymsbecky.tumblr.com/ which has lots of dialogue betwen Ms Becky and people who send comments to her.
Now, a walk on the wilder side!!!
Okay, a GIGANTIC LEAP (squeezing his jewels)

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spanking tumblr site to visit

Another site that has been around for a few months, has a title that speaks volumes....

If you have never been spanked as an adult... you might find the clothing your wife is wearing to be FABULOUSLY EXCITING
your reaction might be:
but, don't believe the friendly flirty smile, and the price tag on the implement stating she just purchased this on a whim to spice things up!
Because the spanking will set your bottom on fire

“Stop wiggling…it certainly won’t stop your paddling!”

and maybe she will try to fry an egg on your bottom after the spanking has ended
But, my word of advice, after many years of being spanked... AGREE!!!!!!! It is a wonderful aphrodisiac, and problem solver

Photos are from this site.
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a wicked brush

A friend sent me a photo of a spanking brush that has been used on his bottom throughout the years..

Although it's generally called a hairbrush, it was actually used (I believe) to brush lint from clothes before one stepped out. Bristles are certainly too soft to do much with hair. In one episode of Downton Abbey there is what looks like one of these things hanging on the wall in a downstairs passageway. 
 You can just imagine it's effectiveness
 and really worry when it is about to be applied
Thanks P
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